Establish a "safeword" or a simple "stop/slow down" signal. Knowing you have 100% control over the pace makes it much easier to relax physically. 2. The Golden Rule: Lubrication
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Trying something new at a mature stage in life is a testament to your connection and your willingness to keep growing together. Treat it as an adventure, keep the mood light, and remember that the goal is simply to enjoy each other’s company in a new way. The Golden Rule: Lubrication If you aren't ready
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The most important "prep" doesn't happen in the bathroom; it happens on the couch. Whether you are the one curious about it or your partner brought it up, talk about your "why."Is it about the intimacy of total surrender?
Before any penetration, use a lubricated finger to gently "knock on the door." This helps the muscles get used to the sensation of contact. Breathing: Deep, belly breaths help the pelvic floor relax. 5. Take It Slow (Really Slow)