: The song portrays the current partner as undeserving, with the narrator noting that "he doesn't see you like I do."

: James Arthur's willingness to admit to "pleading" for a spot in someone's life—rather than just being a "cool" protagonist—makes the song deeply human.

Musically, the track relies on a stripped-back acoustic arrangement that highlights James Arthur’s raspy, powerful vocals. This raw delivery emphasizes the "sadness" and "redemption" themes that often define his work, drawing on his personal experiences with struggle and validation.

The lyrics tell the story of a protagonist watching someone they love from a distance, trapped in the "friend zone" while they remain in a relationship with someone else.

: The hook—"Can I be him?"—is a desperate plea for a chance to provide the care, attention, and love that the other person is supposedly failing to give.

: As seen in his broader career, Arthur often writes about the desire to "prove people wrong" or find a better version of himself; in this song, he presents himself as the better choice for the person he loves. Short Essay on Music | Adedayo Agarau - Isele Magazine