: Prioritizing "winning" an argument over resolving the underlying issue. Communication Perspectives
Marriage problems often manifest through specific behavioral shifts and communication breakdowns:
“Normal, every day communication is difficult enough. But if one or the both of you are upset, or if the topic is difficult... PLEASE don't try to discuss it while texting. ... You need to communicate face to face.” Facebook · The Marriage Club · 8 years ago
: Moving from complaining about a behavior to attacking a partner's character (e.g., using "always" or "never").
“I have a hard time recognizing my emotions. ... The thing that works the best for me is to pretend to have a conversation with him. I'll go for a drive and just talk out loud as if I'm talking to him. It allows me to get past feelings of hurt or anger so...” Reddit · r/Marriage · 3 years ago Core Problem Areas Heavy texting a sign of marriage problems
: Frequently resorting to the "silent treatment" or stonewalling during disagreements.
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: A significant decline in both physical affection and emotional vulnerability.