They often perceive even gentle feedback as extreme criticism, which triggers deep shame and defensive reactions like playing the victim.
They often struggle to respond to their child's feelings, especially during high-emotion moments, and may seem indifferent to their child's suffering. Narcissistic Mommy.mp4
This includes gaslighting (denying reality), guilt-tripping , and using the silent treatment to maintain control over their children. They often perceive even gentle feedback as extreme
They frequently invade their children's privacy and autonomy, viewing boundaries as personal attacks. Impact on Adult Children especially during high-emotion moments
Many become "workhorses" or people-pleasers who struggle to put their own needs first.
Children raised in these environments often carry specific emotional wounds into adulthood: