T4T storylines have surged in popularity because they bypass the "Trans 101" explanations often required in cis-trans relationships.
Detransition, Baby by Torrey Peters (complex T4T dynamics) or A Lady for a Duke by Alexis Hall (historical trans romance).
Something Must Break (a raw look at gender-bending attraction).
These stories prioritize mutual understanding. Characters don't have to explain their dysphoria or medical needs; their partner already "gets it."
Instead of the relationship ending, the story focuses on the couple "re-meeting" each other. The romance shifts from being based on a performance to being based on radical honesty.
In cis-trans romances, modern storylines are moving away from the "shocked partner" trope.